Two BIG Leaks

1) Calling down shorties with marginal hands when I'm the preflop raiser. Losses are not full stacks but they certainly add up to that.

2) Missed draws are killing me as well. In this example, Villain is 56/5/5. In my opinion, the only street I played correctly was my PFR. There is no way I should have lost 31.5BBs on this hand. How would you have played? Example:

Stage #1146353590: Holdem No Limit $0.50 - 2008-12-09 10:55:23 (ET)
Table: CAPE CORAL (Real Money) Seat #6 is the dealer
Seat 6 - DUBSPOKE ($48.44 in chips)
Seat 1 - OKLABANDI111 ($29.15 in chips)
Seat 2 - DUCKNDODGE ($27.50 in chips)
Seat 3 - OZMANZ69 ($99.60 in chips)
Seat 4 - GAMBLINGTOM ($38.95 in chips)
Seat 5 - WOLFY500 ($22.81 in chips)
OKLABANDI111 - Posts small blind $0.25
DUCKNDODGE - Posts big blind $0.50
*** POCKET CARDS ***
Dealt to DUBSPOKE [9s Js]
OZMANZ69 - Folds
GAMBLINGTOM - Folds
WOLFY500 - Folds
DUBSPOKE - Raises $1.75 to $1.75
OKLABANDI111 - Calls $1.50
DUCKNDODGE - Folds
*** FLOP *** [10s Ah 8c]
OKLABANDI111 - Checks
DUBSPOKE - Bets $3
OKLABANDI111 - Raises $6 to $6
DUBSPOKE - Calls $3
*** TURN *** [10s Ah 8c] [6d]
OKLABANDI111 - Bets $8
DUBSPOKE - Calls $8
*** RIVER *** [10s Ah 8c 6d] [Kd]
OKLABANDI111 - All-In $13.40
DUBSPOKE - Folds
OKLABANDI111 - returned ($13.40) : not called
*** SHOW DOWN ***
OKLABANDI111 - Does not show
OKLABANDI111 Collects $29.90 from main pot
*** SUMMARY ***
Total Pot($32) | Rake ($1.60) | Jackpot Rake ($0.50)
Board [10s Ah 8c 6d Kd]
Seat 1: OKLABANDI111 (small blind) collected Total ($29.90) All-In HI:($29.90) [Does not show]
Seat 2: DUCKNDODGE (big blind) Folded on the POCKET CARDS
Seat 3: OZMANZ69 Folded on the POCKET CARDS
Seat 4: GAMBLINGTOM Folded on the POCKET CARDS
Seat 5: WOLFY500 Folded on the POCKET CARDS
Seat 6: DUBSPOKE (dealer) Folded on the RIVER

Essentially my sessions the past few days have been slightly losing. I'll play well for a while, then lose a big hand in a marginal way or suffer a beat (KK loses to random BB hand like a BB shorty's 86o, see leak 1 (66J flop, he CRs me. I should fold, yet I don't. I repop, he shoves and I lose half a 25+ BBs).

Here's another hand that I played incredibly passively after making the correct move PRE. Agree/Disagree and how do you play? Was it correct to give up or should I have jammed river when draws missed?

Stage #1146363238: Holdem No Limit $0.50 - 2008-12-09 11:08:20 (ET)
Table: CAPE CORAL (Real Money) Seat #4 is the dealer
Seat 4 - JOEBASIC ($101.70 in chips)
Seat 5 - JED39670 ($99.50 in chips)
Seat 6 - DUBSPOKE ($38.69 in chips)
Seat 1 - BTTHYWRSUITED ($17 in chips)
Seat 2 - ROYALBLUFFZ ($62.95 in chips)
Seat 3 - OZMANZ69 ($91.55 in chips)
JED39670 - Posts small blind $0.25
DUBSPOKE - Posts big blind $0.50
*** POCKET CARDS ***
Dealt to DUBSPOKE [Jd Ah]
BTTHYWRSUITED - Folds
ROYALBLUFFZ - Folds
OZMANZ69 - Folds
JOEBASIC - Raises $1.75 to $1.75
JED39670 - Folds
DUBSPOKE - Raises $5 to $5.50
JOEBASIC - Calls $3.75
*** FLOP *** [9c 5h Qc]
DUBSPOKE - Checks
JOEBASIC - Checks
*** TURN *** [9c 5h Qc] [3d]
DUBSPOKE - Bets $6.75
JOEBASIC - Calls $6.75
*** RIVER *** [9c 5h Qc 3d] [7s]
DUBSPOKE - Checks
JOEBASIC - Checks
*** SHOW DOWN ***
DUBSPOKE - Shows [Jd Ah] (ace high)
JOEBASIC - Shows [4c 4s] (One pair, fours)
JOEBASIC Collects $23.05 from main pot
*** SUMMARY ***
Total Pot($24.75) | Rake ($1.20) | Jackpot Rake ($0.50)
Board [9c 5h Qc 3d 7s]
Seat 1: BTTHYWRSUITED Folded on the POCKET CARDS
Seat 2: ROYALBLUFFZ Folded on the POCKET CARDS
Seat 3: OZMANZ69 Folded on the POCKET CARDS
Seat 4: JOEBASIC (dealer) won Total ($23.05) HI:($23.05) with One pair, fours [4c 4s - P:4s,P:4c,B:Qc,B:9c,B:7s]
Seat 5: JED39670 (small blind) Folded on the POCKET CARDS
Seat 6: DUBSPOKE (big blind) HI:lost with ace high [Jd Ah - P:Ah,B:Qc,P:Jd,B:9c,B:7s]